Real respect lies in a woman offering salâh, keeping fast, serving her husband, bringing up her children, and wearing a burqa‘ when going out of the house. But today, the husband considers it respectful to walk around in the shopping centres with his fashionable wife. He feels embarrassed when his wife wears a burqa‘. What respect is there in others looking at your wife? There is a limit to shamelessness and absence of self-respect. When a person disobeys Allâh Ta’ala, his intellect is also tormented. He thus considers good things to be bad. Allâh Ta’ala refers to this as follows:

Is he to whom the evil of his deeds is made fair-seeming, so that he considers it as good… – Sûrah Fâtir, 35: 8

In other words, Satan beautifies evil and makes it appealing. Consequently, people start considering evils to be good. For example, women consider non-purdah to be good. As for the women who are pious, who adopt purdah, wear the burqa‘, fear Allâh, perform salâh, and keep fast, it is our duty to respect them and we ask them to supplicate for us. As for the women who walk about without purdah, who display their hair and cheeks, and thereby steal the îmân of the men, we will never respect such women. This is the theme of most of our talks: the hair and cheeks of women who are not in purdah must not destroy the îmân of our young boys.

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Source: khanqah.org

Why some of the Non-Muslims time to time try to evaluate religious spirit of Muslims? and why we always failed to tell them that we are united. Because everyone thinks in his/her own way.

Real thing is that we dont love our prophet. We are just showing to others. Even we dont have love with our religion or our Almighty Allah who is our creator, sorry for saying this.

Fact is we dont want to leave facebook, bottom line.

Our NAFS is so much involved with the happiness of this world. We like to do sin as much as we could and we feel very happy with this act. Sorry for going so harsh.

Thats true, world is so changed now a days and the things we have right now was not available in the era of Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.w). But there is no change in the laws of Sharia’h. Islam is not changed. Allah (S.W.T) knows our thoughts very well. Thats why Allah (S.W.T) already told in the quran 1400 years back. That the deen is now completed and you will not be succeeded unless you follow the path of Rasool Allah (s.a.w.w) and his companions.

Are the laws of islam not sufficient for us to spend our life? wheras quran says “islam is a complete code of life.”

Why the life of Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.w) is so meaning less to us?

Why we are neglecting the lives of Sahaba (R.A)? for whom Allah (s.w.t) is saying in his book “I am agree with them and they are agreed upon me.”

Let me know, what if all the muslims stop using google. Dont you think this will not effect on the revenue generation of Google??

What ever you think, i am 100% sure if we make a complete boycott of facebook and take a step to not use it from now onwards, this will really effect on there revenue.

But the question is, how we take this step? Because we are too habitual with all the nesty things and we dont want to loose a chance of doing SIN.

I dont want to go in debate that where are the nesty things on facebook and how we are doing SIN.

Day by day our EEMAN is going weaker and weaker, even we are unable to pray 5 times a day regularly. So how we will take this bold step of not using facebook because many of us have opposite sex friendships there. which is more valuable to us then our Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.w) and Islam.

Well… What i did in this regard, i deleted my facebook account. Because my Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.w) is more valuable and more respectful. And i know i will have to face my Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.W) on the day of judgement.

Here i am posting a link to delete facebook account. May be there will be someone else too, for whom Prophet Muhammad(S.A.W.W) is more valuable and respectful.

https://ssl.facebook.com/help/contact.php?show_form=delete_account

Choice is yours.

Assalam-o-Alaikum Wa Rehmatullah-e-Wabarakatuhu

Hadhrat Abu Uthman (Radhiyallaho anho) says: “I was once sitting under a tree with Hadhrat Salmaan (Radhiyallaho anho). He caught hold of a dry branch of the tree and shook it till all its leaves fell off. He then said to me, “O, Abu Uthman! (Radhiyallaho anho) Will you not ask me why I am doing this?” “Do tell me,” I entreated. He said, “The Apostle of Allah Sallallaho alaihe wasallam had done exactly like this before me, while I was with him under a tree. 

He Sallallaho alaihe wasallam caught a dry branch of it and shook it, till all its leaves fell off”. At this he Sallallaho alaihe wasallam said: “O, Salmaan! (Radhiyallaho anho) will you not ask me why I am doing this?’ I replied: ‘Do tell me why you are doing this?’ He remarked: “Verily when a Muslim takes wudhu properly and then observes his Salaat five times a day, his sins fall off just as these leaves have fallen off. He then recited the following verse of the Holy Qur’an: 

 ”Establish salaat at the two ends of the day, and at the approaches of the night. Verily, good deeds annul ill deeds. This is a reminder for the mindful. (XI: 114)” 

The behaviour of Hadhrat Salmaan (Radhiyallaho anho) in the above Hadith displays the profound love which the Sahaabah had for the Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam). 

 They would often cherish the sweet memories of the time when the Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) was living among them. They would, while quoting him, enact exactly what they had seen him doing at a particular moment. 

It is really very difficult to cover all the traditions of the Holy Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam), which deal with the importance of salaat and which declare forgiveness for those who guard it. As had already been said before, the theologians restrict this declaration of forgiveness to saghaa’ir (minor sins) only, but in the text of the Hadith there is no such restriction. 

My learned father gave me two reasons for this. Firstly, it does not really become a Muslim to commit any of the kabaa’ir (major sins). If perchance any such sins are committed by him, he cannot rest in peace (due to inherent fear of Allah in him) until he washes them with his tears of repentance in crying before Allah. Secondly, the person who performs his salaat with sincerity and thoroughness is very likely to do istighfaar quite a number of times daily. Look for instance at the closing prayer of salaat itself :

    ”O, My Lord! I have wronged my soul a great wrong, and none forgiveth sins save Thou alone. Then forgive me and have mercy on me. Verily, Thou are the Forgiving, the Merciful. “

In the above Hadith, mention is made of wudhu to be done properly. We should, therefore, be sure of the regulations about wudhu and try to observe all of these. For example, take the case of miswaak. It is sunnat of wudhu, but is very often neglected. It is said in a Hadith that the salaat offered after doing miswaak is seventy times superior to the salaat without miswaak.

Source: Nazmay.com